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JOIN A DISCUSSION ON "KEY INGREDIENTS" OF PEER SUICIDE GRIEF SUPPORT

3/14/2012

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What are your ideas about the "key ingredients" of peer suicide grief support? Please join the discussion on this important topic.

Peer grief support is an emerging field of practice that is especially applicable to helping people bereaved by suicide. For ages, those who have experienced grief themselves have offered to assist newly bereaved people, and now peer helper programs and training are among the forces transforming this means of support into a systematic practice. 

A significant amount of suicide grief support is delivered by peers, especially through suicide bereavement support groups, and it would be valuable to take a look at lessons being learned in other areas where peer helpers are delivering services. One such area is the U.S. military, regarding which a white paper was recently published, "Best Practice Identified for Peer Support Programs" (download available). The document identifies the following "key ingredients ... [that] account for the special effectiveness of peer support interventions":
  • Social support includes "emotional support, information and advice, practical assistance, and help in understanding or interpreting events."
  • Experiential knowledge (particularly knowledge based on common experience) gives peer supporters "greater credibility as 'experts' in dealing with the problems and challenges faced by the person seeking support."
  • Trust is present when the person being helped experiences the helper as honest, unselfish, and reliable. 
  • Confidentiality is the centerpost of effective peer assistance, in part because it is the basis for trusting the helper.
  • Easy access is fundamental for obvious reasons: Even if a peer support program is extraordinary in every other way, it cannot be effective unless people who need help are able to take part in the program.
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Leah Braun link
3/25/2012 11:36:04 pm

All good stuff! The NYC Police Dept has had success with a peer mentoring program too. That may be worth checking out.

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JoanneMazzotta link
4/23/2012 11:22:03 pm

I am the mother of four children, now adults. My second child,Danny took his own life when he was 32 years old. After many years spent in the passage of grief, the most tumultuous emotional travel I have ever experienced, I have come full circle to understanding. While in the grief so unspeakable, I began to journal my thoughts and for 8 years I knew finally that I was not alone. When my husband fund my journals he insisted I publish them because he witnessed in my words a path back to life for my family and believed my journals would help someone. My book WHY WHISPER? was published in December 2011. The responses from those who lost loved ones by suicide were innumerable. People needed to give their grief a voice. This hushed subject needs lights thrown on it because the old worn out stigma about suicide is not helping people who feel isolated from society. And because suicide has reached epic proportions now days.. Every 15 minutes someone dies by suicide. It has become the 3rd leading cause of death among teens and there are an estimated 6 million suicide survivors in the world today with no place to go for relief.

I thank you for the website and pray that those who feel this brand of grief can find comfort in knowing they are not alone.I want them to give their grief a voice. There is a path to healing. I promise you that.
Mostly I want to tell those who believe their lives are not valuable,, that they are mistaken.

God Bless,
Joanne


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Jill Fisher - link
8/18/2012 07:25:17 pm

Hi from Australia
We are currently developing a comprehensive peer support program within the National StandBy Response Service and interested to hear about any programs, evaluation outcomes, research etc. that may contribute to our work.
Regards
Jill Fisher
National StandBy Response Service Coordinator, PO Box 365 Tewantin QLD Australia

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Teri Sweaney
7/31/2013 07:28:42 pm

Being not alone--having others to be with and talk to with a shared experience--has been the most important aspect of my postvention healing journey.

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