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FIREFIGHTER VIDEO ON IMPACT OF SUICIDE TELLS IT LIKE IT IS

1/4/2016

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The short video Firefighters Coping with the Aftermath of Suicide takes an intimate look at how suicide affects firefighters, both because they respond to suicide attempts and fatalities and because suicide strikes among their own ranks.

Please share the video with your local fire department (here's the short URL: youtu.be/QSH5EbNhJBA) and encourage firefighters to watch it (it's 11 minutes long).

In the video, Gretta Flatt, a firefighter with South Metro Fire Rescue near Denver, Colo., tells the story of a horrific suicide she and fellow firefighters responded to that triggered distress in her from a long career responding to traumatic incidents:

This is a prime example where I was not aware of how that would affect me personally. This particular call ... is really a hotbed .. I am at the latter part of my career, so it's like things are showing up out of the blue, and I have read about that, but it can really happen.

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WHEN SOMEONE DIES BY SUICIDE, ALL SYSTEMS MUST PROVIDE HELP

5/29/2015

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Infographic: Levels of Care in Aftermath of Suicide

By Franklin Cook

The special report "Systems Must Include Three Levels of Care for Aftermath of Suicide" (available to read or download below) is essential reading for anyone involved in developing, implementing, or assessing services designed to help people who have been affected by a suicide fatality, such as first responders, mental health practitioners, and the suicide bereaved.

Based on recently released national guidelines,* the report delineates three levels of care:
   • Immediate response: crisis assistance, triage and referral, follow-up
   • Support: assistance with grief and loss, self-help
   • Treatment: interventions for potentially debilitating conditions

Quoting Goal 6 of the guidelines -- which is to "ensure that people exposed to a suicide receive essential and appropriate information" -- the report explains that providing such information is a goal that applies across all three levels of care. It also features an addendum, "Information for People Exposed to a Suicide" that outlines the kinds of information that are valuable to people exposed to a suicide and points to the online resource directory available at bit.ly/afterasuicide.


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FALLOUT FROM A SUICIDE CAN TOUCH EVERYONE WHO IS EXPOSED

5/12/2015

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By Franklin Cook

The report "Helping All Who Are Exposed: A New View of Suicide Loss"* (available to read or download, below) describes a framework that considers the needs of everyone who might experience negative effects after someone dies by suicide. The framework organizes people that a suicide could have an impact on into four categories:

   • Suicide Exposed: Everyone who has any connection to the deceased or to the death itself, including witnesses
   • Suicide Affected: Those for whom the exposure causes a reaction, which may be mild, moderate or severe, self-limiting or ongoing
   • Suicide Bereaved Short-Term: People who have an attachment bond with the deceased and gradually adapt to the loss over time
   • Suicide Bereaved Long-Term: Those for whom grieving becomes a protracted struggle that includes diminished functioning in important aspects of their life

The graphic above gives a multitude of examples of people who might experience fallout from a suicide, including many whose needs are not accounted for in current outreach efforts. As the report states,
"Determining how a particular individual might be categorized would not be linked to the person's designation, role, or relationship in reference to the deceased. Rather, each person's reaction to the death would determine the category into which he or she would be classified."

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"POLICE CHIEF" MAGAZINE PROMOTES SUICIDE LOSS FIRST AID

4/25/2015

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By Franklin Cook

In introducing "Suicide Loss First Aid: How Police Officers Can Assist Suicide Survivors" in The Police Chief magazine, Tony Salvatore of Montgomery County Emergency Service in Norristown, Penn., points out that more than three-fourths of suicides documented in a 2011 report "occurred in or near the victim's residence." He concludes:
This means that most suicide victims are found by family members or may have had family members who witnessed the death. Relating to those who were close to the victim of a suicide may be one of the most challenging duties that any officer faces, yet few officers receive any training for this task.
The article focuses on the knowledge and skills necessary for law enforcement officers to respond effectively to a scene, covering topics such as the immediate needs of suicide loss survivors, principles of basic suicide postvention (support in the aftermath of a suicide), and a number of other vital considerations.

Salvatore has been writing about the role of first responders in supporting the suicide bereaved for some time (see my 2010 blog post highlighting his work, bit.ly/suicideems), and I hope that the recent publication of national guidelines for effective response to a suicide fatality sparks interest in formal efforts to further develop protocols for first responders. Salvatore has documented the dire need for such protocols, and there are models available that may provide a starting place, such as a guide developed in Canada and guidelines from a police department in England.
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